Fathers Day

Happy fathers day to all the Fathers out there. Well in my family we celebrated fathers day for my dad and my husband. I cooked my husband his favorite authentic Mexican food "Posole" which his always begging me to make but I always say next week because its so much cooking. Anyways I cooked all day when I finally finish we ate together which im so glad it came out good because I dont make it every day I sometimes loose my touch anyways it was so good they finished it all. Thank God didn't want to eat that as leftovers. Then my kids bought out the presents they got their dad. they were more excited than my husband  which he ended up almost crying. we then had cake which again my kids were more excited. They love cake!! After that we went to walk on the orange blossom trail to exercise down the cake and posole we had just ate. even though we wanted t walk a long way it was just to hot and it was already 6pm. well that's how I celebrated fathers day for my husband. I hope ya had a good fathers day with the fathers in your family.   

Last class

This is our last class together. I hope to see you guys around campus and if I don't then good luck in all of your classes and hope you all achieve what you came here to achieve. in my part had a good time in this class. I learned a lot that I didn't know about computers and there functions. even though im not happy with my grade because I have had straight a's till know but I didn't get it I earned it. Its just everything has happened to me this semester. not that im putting excuses but everything was crazy this semester. I didn't know how hard was to work and come to school. So for all those people that been working and come to school I don't know how you been doing it because I'm really tired and frustrated. But thank GOD we are getting a break so I can relax at least for a couple of weeks. Well hope all of you enjoy for summer breaks.

Forgiveness

What do you think about forgiveness? Well I think it all depends on the offence. I think lies and cheating is unforgettable. But I think it depends on who and what. for example my best friend she's been married with her husband for 7 years and last month she told me she caught him cheating. She was destroyed it took her about a week to get up from this. I was there for her all the way. I thought she was though with the relationship. well she called me a few days later and told me that her and her husband talked it  out and that she was going to forgive him and she was going to fight for her marriage. I though she was crazy who forgives a man that cheats? But I wanted to be supportive and said ok well are you sure about this decision you were not pressured in any way. She said no that she loved him and that she couldn't just throw 7 years into the garbage. ( I thought in my head he threw them away when he cheated and I don't think he thought it twice.) Even though I thought she was stupid and did not know what she was getting herself into. I also thought she was strong to forgive him like that even though it might take time for them to be a married couple again I think she might be right. I seen cases where the marriage has gotten stronger and they see what they both have in the relationship. They should also go to counseling for them to talk and check what is really wrong with it. I just hope that she made the right decision and that she never has to go throw this again. because I think that I would not have the heart to forgive my husband. But you never know how you are going to react in a situation until you live it.

week

This week was uneventful like always. I went grocery shopping at Wal-Mart Sunday we were planning to go to the park but it rained almost all day which ruined those plans.  in another note I got my schedule for next semester which sound ok I think I have Ms. Erica again. because I have computer applications 2 which sounds awesome. then I have legal research and writing which sounds awesome I cant wait to go to this class. I also have torts which sounds boring lol and I have heard is not fun. but I have to get though it to graduate and move forward. which I cant wait to start to work as a paralegal. I wish there was a forward button and go to that moment. but I guess I would miss the good moments and bad one which make you stronger. oh I forgot I'm excited because my kids have 2 more days of school and we have a lot of plans for the summer. I also forgot that last Thursday my son graduated from pre k. I was the cutest thing ever they did a replica of a real graduation. we then went to celebrate by eating subway which was what the graduate wanted. so now his waiting for kindergarten which his excited for.

life

well this weekend was uneventful I did nothing but work and clean the house. Oh and work on my mind map which I'm getting the hung of them. They are not that hard the first one I had difficulty with this one not so much. I cant wait for summer to start maybe ill go on vacation. not sure when during the summer but I want to go visit my family in Mexico.

I went last summer had a blast. even though I think is far as heck. Its a place that was made to relax. Its quite, even the air smells different it smells pure and fresh. even though the people live so simple they make you feel like your in the fanciest place ever. And the love they give you nothing compares, you never feel alone. Well like I said I went last year but before that I went when I was about 10 years old. For them to see me as a woman with kids was weird they were expecting the 10 yrs. old little girl I was.

So I hope I get to go I have to save up I little more money (even though its hard).With bills and more bills they don't take a summer break. lol but anyways I hope that your weekends were eventful and less boring than mine. What are you planning for the summer? A vacation? A trip? Or just sleep all day? which is fine too.  

weekend (mothers day)

Well Happy Late Mothers day to all the moms. Well my weekend started on Saturday with work. Which I don't mind because I like my job it can be boring at times but its fun. I worked from 10am till 2pm my boss said go early as a mothers day gift. LOL Anyways Saturday was May 10th and in the Mexico Every 10th if May is mothers day and we a Mexicans  celebrate mothers day that day instead of the date they set here. Well during work my family called and said happy mothers day which was a little embarrassing with my boss, he asked why was I getting so many calls if everything was ok.Then I explained that for us its mothers day and he said that was interesting.

When I got home my kids and husband were waiting for me with roses and dinner (*chipotle*) my favorite. We ate dinner and played games. We decided to play soccer bad idea because where we live there is barely any yard and when my husband kicked the ball towards the goalie I said I got it and the ball hit me in the face. It hurt so bad I almost cried but I hold it in so my kids wont get scared. But I saw that it stared getting purple which sucks because now I'm walking around with a purple lip so unlucky.  :(

Sunday the mothers days day here was fun to. ( I had two days of mothers day) We decided to make tamales which is a lot of work but fun at the same time. We had a little mothers day party and ate cake which was so good. I was just so happy to spend mothers day with my mommy that I love and don't know what I would do with out her. I gave her flowers and my kids made her cards which she loved. I feel that weekends are getting shorter.

Time flies

Where does time go. I feel like time flies I feel like I just came home with my newborn baby boy. Even though it was two years ago. (LOL) now he talks and asks for things and if I'm busy and he wants to put on his pants he does it himself. Which I hate because he changes a thousand times a day. I don't know what is clean and what's dirty. He just learned to open the fridge which I don't know what is that he opens it makes room in there to sit and just stay there. OH and he takes his own food specially the sweet thing and makes the biggest mess.
Now that he is two were going thru the terrible twos which I hate hate hate. the tantrums the yelling. I read lots of thing online to help me figure what helps with that but nothing works. He started saying that I'm mean. Which when I heard it for the first time I laughed so hard then I felt sad that my two year old is growing so fast.
And with mid terms and work and my little crazy two year old im really busy and ready to have a panic attack lol. But I will get thru this and I love my active life because it used to be boring and just still. So im going to enjoy every minute and try to control my toddler that wants to act like a teenager lol.

Boring week

I have had a very boring week. Work has been boring because there is no customers coming in lately. all I do is wait and wait, clean and re-clean the glass display cases. well this week I had a chance to do my homework at work which to me was awesome. But I guess im ok because im getting paid regardless. Plus this Friday I got my first pay check ever Im so proud of myself it feels awesome to earn your own money.

Also this weekend I finished moving. Which was a pain in the neck that I still cant relieve. Even though I finished moving I still have to unpack which I think is worse. I cant wait till im done because I have no time I go to work in the morning and don't come home till ten and Im going to try to unpack a box a day to see how long it takes for me to unpack like 40 boxes of my stuff.

Sunday was a laid back day. We unpacked the necessary which was not that fun ;( my kids made more mess than actual organizing were things go. Then we went grocery shopping for the week which was ok. we went a little early so there were no one at the store. Then around 1:00 we decided to go to the beach which my kids love they would live there if they could we were there till late and when we got home and my kids were so tired they fell asleep as soon as they home.    

An okay week

This week is my second week of work. It has been boring the reason is that the cell phone store I work at just opened so if were lucky we have one 3 customers come in. So all day I'm listening to music or play a game on my phone. I mean I don't mind getting paid for doing nothing but I want to enjoy going to work and like what I do. so I really hope that work picks up very soon or I'm going top go nuts!!'

This week I'm also moving. which I hate for the fact that I end up having so much stuff that I didn't know I even had. until I have to pack it up in boxes and realize all the junk I have. So tomorrow before work I'm making a huge box that will say DONATION and get rid of all kinds of this I hope a lot of toys go into that box. for some reason we always have tons of those and no matter how much I give or throw away they are every where.

So I really hope this moving week goes smooth and work picks up or ill end up pulling out my hair lol. By the way how were your guys Easter? Mine was lame we were going to go to the beach but the weather was bad. so we ended up watch movies and getting take out. My kids were a little sad but they were happy we got to watch their favorite movies. Maybe this Sunday the weather gets better so we can go.

a new beging

This week has been a big deal for me. I got a job (my first job ever ) at a cell phone store and it was a random thing. I went in this store to activate my husband phone and the lady said do you know anyone who wants to work. I said what's the hours and how much are they paying. She said why, are you interested I said yeah. so she said all I had to do was to go an Orlando store to train.


I went to train in a store on curry ford rd. in Orlando. the owner of that store was so nice he made me feel like I could ask any questions and concerns about the job. I went for two days and in those two days I learned a lot how to activate a phone, how to collect payments, and how to talk to customers. I still need to work on my selling skills because I need sold anything and now I have to cell phones.




Even though I'm very excited to have this job I'm also so sad that I don't get to see my kids a lot. I go to work in the day time and go to school at night and when I get home from school they are sleeping and I miss them. when I drop off my two year old with my cousin he cries bloody murder and it breaks my heart. I hope that my baby gets used to our new routine if not then I don't know what I will do.

More About Me

This is my first time ever blogging and I find it a little weird, because I really don't like to write about anything. Even about me or my life, because its really really boring. I guess this is something new and cool that I will come to love or hate. I hope that I become to love it because if I don't this semester is not going to be fun at all:(

Even though we did an introduction of ourselves mine was not that great because I am shy. I can go more into detail because I don't have to stand up in front of anybody. Well my name is Maria and I 23 years old. I was born and raised here in Orlando Florida. But raised to be a Mexican because my parents are from Mexico. I been married for 6 years, I married really young. I have 3 kids, 2 sons and my princess. Married life is not easy and I wish there was a guide of a perfect marriage. even though its not easy I love my husband he is my other half and I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him.

Im here at city college to get my associates degree in paralegal. This is my 5th semester and I have loved every semester. I cant wait to start my externship and get a career that I enjoy plus win good money$$$$. I want to work in an Immigration Law firm. I want to make a difference in someone's life. I think by working in immigration law I can do exactly that.